Rest assured, if she likes you, she likes you.ĥ. She was probably born bisexual and will probably always be bisexual. So many people act like bisexuality is this weigh station between gay and straight, but it's not. Do you know how many monogamous blondes there are in the world? So many monogamous blondes! Same with bisexuals.Ĥ. That'd be like saying someone was going to cheat on you because all blondes cheat. No, she's not going to cheat on you just because she's bisexual. If you’re dating a bisexual woman, you can help her feel close to her identity by encouraging her to stay involved in the bi community and not making the mistake of assuming she’s straight or gay now based upon your own orientation.ģ. While I enjoy dating people like David and people like Lauren, both experiences often include bi erasure, or society’s desire to categorize me as either straight or gay. When I’m out at a queer club covered in glitter and making out with Lauren, the lesbian I’m seeing, society assumes I’m a femme lesbian.
When I’m out at the movies with David, the tall, hairy, straight dude, society assumes that I’m a straight woman. And on top of annoying questions, she likely experiences a unique form of identity erasure. You wouldn't keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was "really" straight, right? Yeah, it's just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman.Ģ. The HIV Treatment Works Campaign also has helpful resources to address common issues and questions.1. While many gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men may not seek care from a mental health provider because of a fear of discrimination or homophobia, it is important to keep this as an option and to find a provider that is trustworthy and compatible. Mental health counseling and support groups that are sensitive to the needs of gay and bisexual men can be especially useful if you are coming to terms with your sexual orientation or are experiencing depression, anxiety, or other mental health problems. If you are unable to get social support from your friends and families, you can try finding support by becoming involved in community, social, athletic, religious, and other groups. Having a supportive group of friends and family members is often key to successfully dealing with the stress of day-to-day life and maintaining good mental health. However, being “out” in some settings and to people who react negatively can add to the stress experienced by gay and bisexual men, and can lead to poorer mental health and discrimination. In general, research has shown that gay and bisexual men who are open about their sexual orientation with others have better health outcomes than gay and bisexual men who do not. Keeping your sexual orientation hidden from others (being “in the closet”) and fear of having your sexual orientation disclosed (being “outed”) can add to the stress of being gay or bisexual.
It affects men who are living with HIV those who are at high risk, but HIV negative and loved ones of those living with, or who have died from HIV.
HIV is another issue that has had a huge impact on the mental health of gay and bisexual men. Gay and bisexual men are more likely than other men to have tried to commit suicide as well as to have succeeded at suicide. These include more use of illegal drugs and a greater risk for suicide. Gay and bisexual men may also face other health threats that usually happen along with mental health problems. Research also shows that, compared to other men, gay and bisexual men have higher chances of having: However, ongoing homophobia, stigma (negative and usually unfair beliefs), and discrimination (unfairly treating a person or group of people) can have negative effects on your health. Like everyone else, the majority of gay and bisexual men are able to cope successfully if connected to the right resources. The majority of gay and bisexual men have and maintain good mental health, even though research has shown that they are at greater risk for mental health problems.