All you can do is ask and let him decide if he wants to tell you. Just like you wouldn't sit in front of someone and watch them make out with their partner (or watch even more intimate acts), you don't need to break into that part of his life.
At the end of the day, the most important thing to remember is that his sexuality is his business. Someone's sexuality is their business.Since it doesn't matter, then you don't have to know, and judging prematurely can only create problems. This piece of information should not have any impact on how you think of him or how you interact with him. Another important thing to remember is that it's not very important whether or not he's gay. Even if he is gay, that should not inform your opinion of him.This is why it's better to ask or just see how things develop between you, rather than just decide for yourself. If you're trying to figure out if your friend is gay because you want to date him (as a woman), it's important to remember that just because he might be interested in men doesn't mean he's not interested in women. Being interested in men does not mean he's not interested in women.For example, his family may be violently homophobic and by deciding that he's gay, you may out him by accident by treating him different or implying something without meaning to. By "outing" them, even to yourself, you may be putting them in danger. You may want to know if your friend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're staying closeted. People have good reasons to stay closeted sometimes.But don’t assume he’s too damaged to date just because he’s had to overcome a great deal of hardship. XBEAUTYS.COM: My Hot Moms Fucking Best Friend. Hot Threesome With Lucky Stepdad Fucking His Hot Teen Stepdaughter Riley Reid And Her Best Friend Krystal Banks. If he treats you badly or ends up not being the right person for you, by all means, break up with him. Spying on My Stepmom and Step Sister & Caught Mom F'ing My Best Friend. Don’t let the fact that your boyfriend has suffered greatly at the hands of irresponsible adults and the foster care system count as a strike against his character. There is no minimum Happy Childhood Index required to be a good person and partner.
(I agree with you, by the way, that your boyfriend wasn’t really joking it sounds to me that he genuinely doesn’t know how to cook and wishes someone would show him the basics.) One is: How do I date someone who’s learning a lot of basic responsibilities for the first time as an adult? The other is: Can someone who had an extremely difficult childhood also be a loving, stable partner? To the first I’d say: With patience, with communication, by not laughing at or judging him when he reveals he doesn’t know how to do something you consider obvious or easy, by asking questions, by being supportive. There are two separate questions here, I think. My question is: What can I do to make my parents understand that she has real issues that aren’t being solved by our enabling her? And should I cut my sister out of my life at this point? I feel like she’s a stranger to me, and I’m tired of the turmoil. In the meantime, I have felt that because of my sister’s issues, there was never enough room for me and my needs. I’ve tried for years to help my sister, and none of it has worked.
A couple of weeks ago, she let herself into my house (she had a key) and took my work laptop because she “needed it.” Then I noticed that a full bottle of Vicodin that I had left over from a recent surgery was empty. If you tell her something she doesn’t want to hear, she becomes incredibly cruel. My parents are afraid of her, and I am too. She goes out and parties all the time, and she does everything on my parents’ dime. She refuses to work, so my parents pay all her bills. My younger sister recently got out of a bad relationship, and she has since spiraled out of control.